Chinese food. The color yellow. Wants to: Make a difference. Travel to Russia. And make someone somewhere smile.
be true to you, be honest with others. don’t live your life thinking what if I made a different choice. that will never help you out
The water touches my skin.
Its wet and wild.
The sun beams down on me.
Her rays are refreshing as I lay down by the pool.
The feeling of relaxation is here.
All of my worries can now be left at the pool, and picked up at a later notice.
Welcome to summer.
Been doing some two-a-days at the gym. My arms are like floppy noodles and when i go to get up in the mornings my stomach hurts like no other. I have to throw my legs over the bed before I get up in the morning. So now its off to yoga, maybe to tone some of what feels like I cant even move. I am finding muscles in my body that have been lost for a couple of years. And its nice to have them back but they need to stop hurting.
Trying to decide if I’ll do zumba later this evening as well…lets find out what happens with yoga.
you are only has strong as you make yourself.
get up off your ass and make something of yourself.
Only you define you.
No one else can make you and no one else can break you.
You have all of your own control so start understanding that in the end you are the only one who has the keys to your life.
Thats a safe only you can open and close.
they say that for each month that you were in a relationship thats how many weeks you should take to get over a guy.
so 6months is equal to 6weeks of however you choose to get over a guy.
But what do you actually do for those 6weeks of time…that is the question
Some people just eat a bunch of ice cream and chocolate and watch sappy chick flicks.
Some turn in to absolute whores because they just want to rebound.
And others just try to live their daily lives trying to be a strong person and not break down because they miss the other so much.
Hoping that one day they will wake up and they will be over and done with the person.
However things are not fixed or gotten over, over night.
So take your recovery however you want to but know with each option there is a consequence of some sort.
If you eat ice cream and chocolate and just watch movies, you bet your fat ass that you are going to gain a bunch of weight, and when it happens…DONT complain no one wants to hear that you are fat miserable and single. we are already fed up listening to you mope and say how much you miss the guy.
And if you whore around, be aware thats a cycle thats hard to get out of, you then have to pray to god that you havent recieved a STD, and they are in high quanities right now. If you really wish for that then go ahead sleep with as many men as you can until you can get over the jerk who hurt you, but know that none of us will feel sorry for you when you get the STD you so willingly signed up for.
And if you just live your life then you are doing the healthy and right thing, you are still doing everything you can, maybe hurting just a little bit here and there but because you are doing what you can do for you and taking care of you, you have people around you to support you, to let you break down when need be. And you can still wake up every morning shower and do the things you need to do to make sure you are OK.
In the end there is no time limit on how long it takes to get over a guy its really just how you handle the getting over him part.
